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Become an Agrégée 


Living into “Sacred is the Call”


‘Living Simply in the Spirit of Gospel Values’


Opening the space for conversation, the words of Elizabeth Johnson CSJ in The Quest for the Living God speak to our work:


“… the profound incomprehensibility of God


coupled with the hunger of the human heart


in changing historical cultures actually


requires that there be an ongoing history of


the quest for the living God that can never be concluded.


Historically new attempts at articulation


are to be expected and even welcomed.”

The Agrégée commitment is a covenant relationship with mission lived in the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet.  It is a way of living the charism of unifying love, gift of the Spirit for the sake of the church and the world, and embracing the mission, love of God and the dear neighbor without distinction.  The essence of Agrégée is a graced and free attachment – to the mission, to the congregation, and to each other

                                                                        (From Sacred is the Call, adapted 2020)

 The Agrégée commitment, living simply in the spirit of Gospel values, adheres to a directive of the 2019 CSJ Congregational Acts of Chapter.  It is discerned through the lens of Pope Francis’ encyclical letter, Laudato Si’, to ground our movement as we strive for “the more”.

There are three principles that ground and guide us as we live and grow into living simply within the spirit of Gospel values:


  1. Living simply is a spiritual act … a spiritual way of being

Our core values are informed by the spirit of the Gospel values:


  • Humility: for the human to know our place in creation
  • Gratitude: what needs to be expressed
  • Inclusion: all are welcome who are drawn to the charism


  • Healing: avoiding waste, preserving nature, doing justice, repairing the world, attending to personal wellness
  • Community: (Koinonia) we help one another stay on the path
  • Rest and Renewal: God’s idea for our well-being; individual and communal prayer practice, and our annual retreat


  1. Living simply is experiential … a lifelong call animated by love and informed by Laudato Si’:

Be-Attitudes for Our Common Home (as articulated by Lin Neil, CSJ)


  • Happy are those who know they are one with the Earth Community
    • Happy are those who work for the common good
    • Happy are those whose hearts hear the cry of Earth and the cry of the poor
    • Happy are those who are open to lifestyle changes for the sake of Earth and her poor
    • Happy are those willing to engage in ecological conversion
    • Happy are those who embrace Sabbath time, who see God in all things
    • Consider yourself to be the 7th Be-Attitude – a blessing for all


  1. Living simply is a relationship … relationship is the threshold and pathway to living “Sacred is the Call”:
    1. Live in communion: in relationship in communities of families, CSJ Community, Earth, and dear neighbor
    1. Remember: commitment and intention to be faithful witnesses honor authentically the CSJs who have passed before us
    1. Animate: in our practices, how do we become united to love?

Sacred is the Call: Reflections on Agregee

In 2013 those present at the Congregational Chapter committed the Congregation to “intentionally welcome, foster and develop emerging ways of living the charism such as…agrégée.”  One of the responses to this congregational call was a gathering in St. Paul of fourteen women, five from Albany (one in person and four by Zoom), one from Los Angeles, one from St. Louis and seven from St. Paul. These women, associates, consociates and partners in mission, came together from June 15 through June 17, 2018, with the desire to respond to the call of the spirit in each of them and to discern what agregee might mean for themselves and for the Congregation.

After examining elements of agrégée programs in other CSSJ Congregations who have implemented agrégée, namely Concordia, Erie, Springfield and Boston, the women gathered in St. Paul chose to express their hopes and desires as a series of statements coming from their communal dialogue and discernment during their days together.

We believe-

The agrégée commitment is a covenant relationship with mission lived in the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet. It is a way of living the charism of unifying love, gift of the Spirit for the sake of the church and the world.  The essence of agrégée is a graced and free attachment – to the mission, to the congregation, to each other. It can be a temporary or permanent commitment with rights and responsibilities related to justice, relationships, ministry and intentional community.

The agrégée commitment is characterized by:

~Living simply in the spirit of gospel values;

~Pursuing ongoing spiritual growth including an annual retreat;

~Choosing to live in community when feasible;

~Participating in community gatherings;

~Being responsible for one’s own personal financial matters;

~Making an annual financial contribution to the Province and having a percentage of these contributions be set aside for agrégée needs as they arise.

The process of becoming an agrégée is modeled on ACOF and sister admission practices.  It includes spiritual accompaniment with a mentor and resource persons.  The time period of candidacy depends on the person’s background;

Based on the value of self-authority, if an agrégée no longer feels called to this commitment, s/he may be dispensed following dialogue with a designated discernment community.

We extend welcome to those persons who have discerned the charism within themselves and have the desire to live the agrégée commitment.

We extend welcome, affirmation and invitation to those who are married, widowed, divorced, single or partnered as well as families; those of all gender identities and sexual orientations; those of all races and ethnicities.

We believe that what we put in writing now is an evolving expression of agrégée with the Carondelet Congregation. It will unfold with experience and further dialogue and discernment.

Therefore, in response to our 2013 Congregational commitment and the personal call of the Spirit each of us is experiencing-

We express our willingness to experiment and to intentionally live into what agrégée with the Carondelet Congregation means for us.   This may be different for each person and in each local area.  We will reconnect with one another in three months to share what is happening for us.  After a year of experimentation, we will come together to reflect on our experiences and what we have learned as a way to guide us into the future.

While we acknowledge that much of what we have expressed here is already part of our reality, we feel an urgency to begin this time of experimentation together at this time.

Respectfully submitted by Gail Buschle, Mary Cay Cooney, Mary Craven, Nancy Koltko, Kileen Stone (Albany); Rita Scherrei (Los Angeles); Alexandra Guliano (St. Louis); Megan Bender; Louise Hiniker; Barbara McIlquham, Mary Kaye Medinger, Mary Louise Menikheim, Lois Mineau, Jennifer Tacheny (St. Paul)


June 17, 2018


Slightly revised September 30, 2019


January 17-18, 2019


A Short Summary of the Research of Connie DeBiase, CSJ, on Agrégées written by Alexandra Guliano

Two introductory comments:  1) The summary presented comes from the work of the second research team of the CSJ/SSJ Federation which was conducted in the early 1980s and is published in the book Origins of the Sisters of St. Joseph:  A Call to Apostolic Mysticism by Consuela DeBiase, CSJ.  This research team visited 67 “foundations” of groupings of women.  A notebook on each of these can be found in the Federation archives housed at Avila University in Kansas City, MO.  2) Like the early transmission of the Gospels, this research first came to me by the “oral tradition.”  Over the span of forty years, I learned about our origins from Connie  as she recounted her experiences doing the research.  Only in 2014, after much persuasion and many attempts to convince her to publish the research,  was it shared in written form.  Before she became memory impaired and later died in 2017, Shawn Madigan, CSJ, Judy Miller, CSJ, and I were able to retrieve her original writing and several of her talks presented over the years.  These resources are now stored in the St. Louis Province archives.

In summary, here are the most salient points of the research:

1.  From the beginning, what we call now the Sisters of St. Joseph have had many names and various configurations.  What is the constant is the articulation of the charism—love of God and neighbor without distinction.  This is ONE LOVE. There is no distinction between love of God and love of neighbor.

2.  The term “apostolic mysticism” characterizes the living of this one love.  Those who live the charism are impelled by passion for ministry to the dear neighbor in God.

3.  The foundational document—Maxims of Perfection—was written and addressed “for all Christians aspiring to great virtue.”  There is an early recognition that the CSJ charism is not reserved to sisters.

4.  At the time of these early foundings, it is important to note that there were no formal vows, as, at the time, cloister was the only form of consecrated religious life.

5.  Some of the foundings are referred to as “confraternities” of married and unmarried women and widows.  “It is interesting to note that these early Sisters of St. Joseph were not given the title of religiousness.”

6.  The word Agrégée is used with multiple meanings.  Initially, it was a legal term that meant that a person or community was in relationship to a larger entity. It was not a type of membership.  However, today it would mean that a person or particular community is related to a motherhouse.

7.  The reference to “secret” association is not clear.  It could have meant that literally the vows were secret, but it also could be that there was no official record of vows.

8.  Living in groups of three had more to do with the civil laws than spiritual significance.  That said, the references to the created and uncreated Trinities may have been a way to add a spiritual significance to a civil law.

9.  Since there were few references to vows recorded, it also could be that the commitments were temporary as well as permanent.  In addition, where biographical material was discovered, there was a diversity of ages of members.

10.  The dress of the sisters was closer to the dress of married women than any monastic habit.  What is clear is that the sisters wore what was needed to do to their ministry.

11.This is apostolic spirituality. What is most important is the mission, the apostolate.  Living in community and any horarium was established to support the apostolate.  This differs from the monastic and cloistered life which places its primary importance on community living.

12.  The research suggests a progression and evolution of this apostolic spirituality; and, in some groupings, there was a profession of the public vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience.  However, there was no consistency among the foundations.  Further, moving from one grouping to another required that the person/sister/agrégée/associees “start all over again” in formation with the new grouping/community.

One love—love of God and neighbor without distinction—and a diversity of ways of living it!  For a deeper understanding and reflection, please read the book.  While it is research, it is an easy read!



January 24-25, 2019

Adaptation and Agrégées,  notes from a lecture given  by Bette Moslander and Marcia Allen during Falling in Love for a Lifetime Workshop and Retreat,  May, 2011, Manna House of Prayer, Concordia, Kansas; notes by Mary Kaye Medinger


  1. Historical and Contemporary

Marcia Allen entered into the work of her doctoral dissertation with the   intention of proving that CSJ origins were NOT Ignatian. Her findings led her to believe that Jean Pierre Medaille was interacting with the six women of LePuy to capture what was emerging from THEM and to write about what THEY were thinking but to do that in Ignatian terms! The Ignatian stream of spirituality based on discernment was always based on the capacity of the person   – therefore a continuous life of discernment and therefore always leaving room to ADAPT (e.g. as with the Agrégées). How do we live today? By constantly adapting the rule to our circumstances.

The Concordia Constitution focuses on the Holy Spirit, which it mentions twenty one times! The Constitution demonstrates a continuous response of adaptation and is therefore always contemporary, always adaptable. This is also true of the Constitution for Agrégées of St. Joseph of Concordia, Kansas.

The contemporary development of Concordia Agrégées was NOT about increasing membership but rather about responding to an evolving vocation as Agrégées, not as sisters with the three canonical vows. The women responding to the “new vocational call in the church” (Bette Moslander) were responding to a call to live a deeper, more intense spiritual life.


  1. Earliest Foundations in the History of the Sisters of St. Joseph and Agrégées

A) City Houses – City houses were in a specific location. The women took three vows and could be dispensed by the bishop. Examples were the Girls Orphanage (39 girls resided there) on Montferrand Street in LePuy where Francoise Eyraud was administrator, and the house in Bourges were 5 or 6 sisters tended to the needs of 8 elderly sick men. Some houses later took in boarders for income.

Institutions had lay boards of directors; those houses were larger and better organized. They needed a superior, a portress, a bookkeeper, novice director, etc. “Lettres patent” were the civil authorization of legality and Bishop de Maupas requested lettres patent for the Sisters in LePuy.

At least some city houses had servants and life in the houses was demanding. Those to be admitted must be capable of serving as superiors and must demonstrate the absence of contagious disease, insanity and a criminal background. The city houses provided care where there was none and organized communal living under a constitution.

B) Country Houses – Country sisters were Agrégées, aggregated to a city house, did not need officers and took a single vow of stability. They dressed in a simpler manner (widows’ garb, particular to the location), had simpler rules and simpler living conditions. They sometimes lived singly or in groups of two or three or lived in their own homes or rented a common space.

They taught catechetics, did house sitting, child sitting or took care of the elderly. They made their vows “at the foot of their beds.” They made their vow for as long as they lived as an agrégée and lived on their own authority. They were therefore more “self-authorized” than Sisters in the city houses. The admission of poor women into religious life was the biggest innovation “for those who lacked the means and those not called to ‘religious’ (cloistered) life.” The house at Dunieres is the earliest agrégée house on record (1649) and never exceeded six members.



January 31 – Feb 1, 2019

A continuation from Adaptation and Agrégées,  notes from a lecture given  by Bette Moslander and Marcia Allen during Falling in Love for a Lifetime Workshop and Retreat,  May, 2011, Manna House of Prayer, Concordia, Kansas; notes by Mary Kaye Medinger


  1. Contemporary Agrégées in the Concordia Community (as of 2011)

The development of contemporary Agrégées has allowed for women older than canonical vowed life allows to enter a life that they feel a deep desire to join. The template for the Agrégée Community of Concordia was developed when the Formation Team was encountering women in their 50s and 60s who could not drop out of the rest of their lives for three years of postulancy and novitiate. There were recurring applicants in this category. Agrégées COULD include men, couples and non-Catholics but as of 2011 such individuals had not yet applied.

Agrégées are those persons who commit to active, inclusive love of God and the dear neighbor as expressed by the CSJs. They take up their rights and responsibilities through a non-canonical vow of fidelity to live according to the spirit and spirituality of the CSJs. They are MEMBERS of the congregation according to the constitution for Agrégées and the agrégée policies and agreements. Their vow is for life and is regarded with the same seriousness as canonical vows. The vow is made to God and is a private, personal one. Dispensation is permissible by the president of the congregation. Orientation and discernment precede admission to membership. Agrégées are expected to have a discerning life stance, open to and responsive to Spirit. They are expected to make a financial investment in the congregation according to their personal situation. They are expected to make regular retreats, participate regularly in Sharing the Heart, and make a regular assessment and discernment of their ministry.

Studies include the origins, methodology, documents and maxims of the congregation. The focus is on learning to live the life of an agrégée with a sense of deep awareness. When developing an agrégée formation process, it is essential to AVOID answering all the questions ahead of time!



February 7 – 8, 2019

Short Summary of “The Soeurs Agrégées” [Agrégées Sisters], pages 289-304 from Nuns Without Cloister: Sisters of St. Joseph in the Seventeenth and Eighteenth Centuries by Marguerite (Therese) Vacher (translated by Patricia Byrne) – summary by Mary Kaye Medinger; all material comes directly from the text.


  1. Evidence from the Constitutions (pp.289-290) – In the original constitutions of Father Medaille, we read that the agrégées sisters did not form part of the “body of [the] new congregation”, yet in “various places of the towns, and surrounding villages” they performed ”the same exercises” as the sisters. As far as possible, they lived in the same house, “only two or three together.” In both towns and villages, they were attached “to the little congregation by the vow of stability,” and observed “special rules”… Ten years later, documents give evidence …that the country sisters became assimilated to the Agrégées Sisters and the town sisters to the “body” of the congregation…In the 1694 Constitutions…they no longer had their “special rules” …but were to observe “as far as they are able, all the rules prescribed in these Constitutions.”…the agrégées sisters must have existed in sufficient numbers…at the end of the seventeenth century to warrant their own chapter in the Constitutions. – There are indications of small communities around a larger house…toward the end of the seventeenth century districts were most often formed of smaller country houses grouped around a more important one…These smaller houses were often those of soeurs agrégées…The present research has identified forty houses of agrégées sisters living in small country communities.. There were certainly many more.
  2. The Life and Work of the Soeurs Agrégées (pp.291-298) – In a May 24, 1664, bill of sale, seven women referred to as “agrégées” also made an act of association on the same day. It indicates that “they wanted to live spiritually in the observance of the rules and statutes of the daughters of St. Joseph.” In these matters they “had been fully instructed and well informed for four years. They had “practiced to the best of their ability the said rules, consisting of very frequent reception of the sacraments, living in holy community, instructing the young, visiting the sick, looking after the poor of the parish, decorating the altars, and seeing to the care and cleaning of the church.” – In a letter dated September 23, 1665, LePuy bishop Armand de Bethune does not hesitate to say that the Sisters of St. Joseph, agrégées included, “are able to have no less of religious life than the cloistered nuns.” …in his lettres patent, he makes no distinction between the sisters of the congregation and the agrégées sisters.

– In the recommendations for the soeurs agrégées found in the Reglements and the Constitutions, they were asked to establish community by placing their goods in common and to share the reality of their existence in small groups of two and three, as far as possible in the same house. There is no question that the soeurs agrégées placed their goods in common… – If the sharing of goods is uncontested, the sharing of daily life among the soeurs agrégées is obscure and more difficult to confirm, particularly whether they lived together in the same house…One can infer from (various) documents that in the same place and at the same time, some Sisters of St. Joseph lived together and others, living in their own homes, were members of the same community. – Compared with all the documentation preserved in the archives of the Sisters of St. Joseph, data concerning the soeurs agrégées is minimal…Even the smallest clues found in the archives are nevertheless significant and impart an impression of diversity within the category of agrégées sisters… Throughout the eighteenth century, the soeurs agrégées of St. Joseph, like the principal sisters, certainly evolved in their way of life and probably in the understanding of their vocation.


  1. Were the Soeurs Agrégées Religious? (pp. 298-304) – According to the Council of Trent, no Sister of St. Joseph was a religious. From a canonical point of view, their status was clear. In town or country, soeurs agrégées or sisters of the congregation strictly speaking, they all knew very well that without strict enclosure, solemn vows or Divine Office in choir they were simply “filles seculieres”, living “in the same house, in the manner of religious”, without really being nuns….what distinguished the principal sisters and the agrégées sisters had to do with their living together or not and their type of commitment, either by simple vows or by the vow of stability…Through the vow of stability there was a mutual commitment between the agrégées and the Congregation. – The soeurs agrégées were not the same as the third orders and other confraternities of devout women…The commitment of the agrégée sisters consisted in the preferential choice, absolute and definitive, to live in the following of Christ, even though the actual realization of this choice was subordinate to the mutual commitment of the whole body – community or congregation – and of the members….To Father Medaille, there was no doubt that the soeurs agrégées of St. Joseph were truly religious. – …the Sisters of St. Joseph, and particularly the soeurs agrégées, who in their own manner followed the same way of life, were also fundamentally religious. Their institute was a religious institute in the actual sense of the word. It was simply not cloistered. Both the principal sisters and the soeurs agrégées were, as Father Medaille had imagined them, nuns without cloister.



February 14 – 15, 2019

Over the past several years, individuals in the four provinces have been exploring a form of affiliation with the Carondelet Congregation called “agrégées”.  More recently, some of these individuals, along with one member of the Province Leadership Team from each of the four Provinces and a few other interested Sisters, have engaged in several ZOOM conversations.  The conversations have allowed the topic to begin to be explored from a Congregational perspective. Retreat weekends for interested persons were held in St. Paul in June of 2017 and 2018.  This resulted in the creation of a document called “Sacred is the Call: Reflections on Agrégée” in which the participants committed themselves to experiment and to intentionally live into what agrégée with the Carondelet Congregation means for them.  You will find the document attached.

This concludes our informational series on Agrégées.  All materials published in these five weeks can be found on the Members Only section of our website. If you would like to continue the conversation please feel free to contact any one of us.


Denise Ginty, CSJA; Jeanne Marie Gocha, CSJ; Kathy Stein, CSJ and Pat Pilon, CSJA